Divorce mediation cost UK

    Online divorce mediation vs solicitors: what does it really cost?

    A plain-English breakdown of what UK couples typically pay for a solicitor-led divorce compared to reaching agreement online with GoMediation.ai.

    How much does an online divorce actually save?

    Every case is different, but these are the ranges most UK couples see when we compare quotes side by side.

     Traditional solicitorGoMediation.ai
    Upfront cost£500–£2,000 retainer£99 to open a room
    Full agreement cost£2,000–£10,000+ per person£299 on full agreement
    Time to agreement3–18 monthsDays to a few weeks
    Court appearancesSometimes requiredNone
    AvailableOffice hours24/7 online
    LanguagesUsually English only20 languages, real-time
    Written agreement (MOU)YesYes — plain English
    Consent Order filingSolicitor files (£600–£1,500 + £62 court fee)You file yourself (£62 court fee) or use a solicitor
    Typical all-in cost£2,000 – £10,000+£398 + £62 court fee

    Court fees quoted are the HMCTS fees at time of writing: £62 Consent Order, £628 divorce application. Solicitor ranges based on published UK price guides.

    No hourly billing

    You pay one fixed price to open a room and one fixed price when you both agree. No clock ticking on emails or phone calls.

    You stay in control

    Nothing is decided without both of you agreeing. The AI mediator helps you find common ground — it doesn't take sides.

    Weeks, not months

    Most couples reach a signed Memorandum of Understanding in days. You can then file a Consent Order yourself if you want it made binding.

    FAQs

    Is online divorce mediation legally binding?
    The signed Memorandum of Understanding you produce at the end of GoMediation.ai is a formal written record of what you've agreed. To turn the financial terms into a binding court order in England & Wales, you (or a solicitor) file it as a Consent Order with HMCTS (£62 court fee).
    Do I need a MIAM certificate to use online divorce mediation?
    No. A MIAM (Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting) is only required if you later apply to the family court and no exemption applies. You can start GoMediation.ai immediately — see our MIAM guide for the full detail.
    How much does traditional divorce with solicitors cost in the UK?
    Fully contested divorces routinely cost £2,000–£10,000+ per person in solicitor fees, and can climb well past £30,000 if the finances go to a final hearing. Even an 'amicable' solicitor-drafted Consent Order typically costs £600–£1,500.
    What if we can't agree everything online?
    You can pause at any time. Anything you've already agreed is captured in your draft MOU and can be taken to a solicitor or accredited family mediator — you don't start from scratch.

    Ready to see what you'd actually save?

    Open a private divorce mediation room for £99. If you don't reach agreement, that's all you pay.